This is a title that will catch most people’s attention simply because curiosity is a part of every human being.  Now, what does it mean to seek help if you feel you are in love with a liar?  How does one fall in love with said ‘liar’?  Is it the empty promises and lies that lead someone to loving this person?   What if you find out the truth, do you stop loving this person?

Let’s start by saying that when you are getting to know someone and you know that something does not feel right nor does it sound right, nine times out of ten, its probably because it is not right!

Let’s say you meet someone, most would like to refer to and call this period the ‘honeymoon phase’ because it seems as if everything this person does is so ‘cute’ and you can find no fault in them at all.  But, one thing that most could tell you about a liar is that you automatically know RIGHT AWAY that they are lying because things just do not line up correctly.
Okay, so you’re getting to know this person more and more and as you are developing this ‘wonderful’ relationship, you constantly get this nudge or bell going off in your head, but you ignore it.

One thing about the truth, no matter how much you ignore it, it doesn’t go away.  So, you keep getting this feeling that something is just not right; things just don’t add up and something is just plain out wrong.  But, you don’t want to believe the worst about your new found sweetie so you keep telling yourself that you are being paranoid and you keep ignoring that voice.
A rented lie is worst than buying the truth and paying full price!  FYI, the greatest lie you can rent is the one you loan yourself because you are the greatest believer of all things personal.

So, one week leads to two, time passes and you continue to allow this person in your life. 
Now you’re in love.  So what’s next?  I’ll tell you what.  Now you have created a monster of a relationship that is built on and sustained by lies.  An old saying goes, ‘don’t spray perfume on a pig because it still STINKS’!  The same truth applies to this situation.  When you realize that you are in a relationship with this person, hope is not lost.  You just have to have enough confidence and courage to stand up to this person and confront the lies head on.

If the person is willing to change (mind you we don’t live in a perfect world so change will NOT be immediate) then stick around.  If not, in the words of the great Ray Charles, HIT THE ROAD JACK!
What about you, are you in love with a liar?  How are you going to handle the situation?