OMG! Once upon a time this was soooo me… Hopelessly in love with a pathological liar… At first, I thought nothing of it, overlooked the untruths, as he giggled and smooched his way out of things. Assuming it would pass;perhaps he was trying to do better or something “crazy” like that… However, it worsened! He started lying about the most miniscule of things to the gravest of matters…Yet and still, I loved him and believing my love could change him. Perhaps the love I had for him would strengthen perception of self…Not the case… After almost 2 years of inconsistencies and drama, one day I woke up and said that’s it! If you cannot be honest with yourself, how can you be honest with me and how can we have an honest committed relationship!?! Though my “marriage” isn’t perfect, and we go through our things, honesty is something we strive to maintain, no matter the issue!!! It must be tight! Once a relationship is built on lies, you are constantly fixing the the problems, fixing the relationship, it becomes a dang FIXER UPPER! Some broken things, can’t be fixed! I’m glad I woke up and realized that there are somethings I can deal with, DISHONESTY is not one of them… Some little white lies turn into big gaping black holes that’ll suck you in and everyone and everything around you… NO THANKS!!!